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David Mate

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David Mate is a graphic designer, LGBTIQ+ activist, and writer born in El Salvador. Since he was a child, he found ways to communicate through art in any of its forms. He often uses his social...

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Haciendo las paces con ser gay: El viaje hacia la autoaceptación

Miré fijamente los ojos de aquel niño herido y le pedí disculpas mientras lloraba. Me rompió el corazón...

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